When I finally arrived in BA at 7 a.m., I was exhausted, swollen (!), and ready for some real food and to meet up with my friend Birgit, who I would be staying with for the week. I had been nervous about trying to find the right bus that would take me to her apartment - she had given me minimal directions, and although it probably seemed so obvious and easy to her, I knew that it was a huge city and that, given the language barrier, it would actually not be as easy as she made it sound. I was right! After wandering around the bus station for awhile, I found the area where the local buses left from, and of course the bus number she had given me was not leaving from that area! So I went back inside and wandered around more, eventually asking at information (which, yes, I should have done in the first place!), and they pointed me in the right direction. I was so happy to find the correct bus, and when I got on, I told the driver the cross streets I needed to get off at, and he confirmed that was in the San Telmo neighborhood, to which I said yes, and so I sat down expecting that he would let me know when we got there - usually the big old backpack and broken Spanish was enough to alert someone that I needed a bit more help than the average person, but apparently I should have specifically asked him to tell me when we got there so that I could get off. Eventually I was the last person on the bus, and we arrived at the end of the route! Frustrated, I tried to explain to him once again where I had wanted to go, and he just kept pointing at a little kiosk on the corner and telling me to get off. So, even though I didn't know where I was, or what the person at the kiosk would be able to do for me, I did as he said and got off and went up to the girl and once again attempted to tell her where I wanted to go. She didn't speak any English, and things got even more frustrating from that point on! The best I could figure out (after the fact) was that all I needed to do was buy another ticket from them to get back on the same bus. They started telling me something about 100 pesos, which was a lot of money, and really confused me. The combination of being exhausted and the language barrier frustrated me so much that I was near tears! I looked at all of the faces around me, and desperately asked if anyone spoke English - no one did! I thought, I am in BA, a big city, and not one of these people can help me?! One lady was especially sweet and tried to talk to me despite the language problem, and eventually we were able to figure out that yes, I did just need to get back on the same bus, and the girl at the kiosk was just trying to give me change so that I could buy the bus fare - they gave me change for my 100 pesos, 20 of them in coins! This exchange confirmed for me that after 5 months in South America, my Spanish was still remedial at best, and I need to learn it better! So I waited for the bus to come back, and of course it was the same driver! I almost didn't get back on because it was him, but he motioned to me to get on, and that time, he did tell me when to get off! From there, I could easily follow a map and it was a short walk to Birgit's apartment! All in all, it had taken me three hours to find her place, but I was SO happy to get there and see a familiar face!
Birgit's apartment was so cute, and it was awesome to be able to stay at a friend's for once instead of in a hostel! I took a nice hot shower and then we walked to the big San Telmo antiques market and just enjoyed the beautiful weather. That afternoon, we took the bus to American bar called Shoeless Joe's so that we (ok, so I could watch it, but Birgit was so great to accompany me) could watch the Packer's game! After an undefeated season thus far, what should have been an easy win for us against the Kansas City Chiefs, was our first loss! I couldn't believe that, after all of the trouble I had had attempting to watch the games over the past couple of months, the one I was finally able to really watch was a loss! Despite that sad fact, it was still so fun to walk into a bar in Argentina and see other people with Packer's jerseys on! Of course we sat with them, and it turned out that Birgit had played ultimate frisbee with one of them, who was from Colombia, and had become a Packer's fan by way of a video game that he played growing up in Medellin, Colombia - he had chosen the Packers as his team, and just decided to become a fan! He, his brother, and two of their friends would go together to watch the games at a bar in Medellin, and now he was going to school in Buenos Aires. There really are Packer's fans everywhere! There was also a white-haired couple that came in and they were a hoot! They are from the Madison area, had been high school sweethearts and had recently gotten back together after several decades. And so, despite the sad loss that day, it was a really fun afternoon!
That night, we walked to my first milonga, which had a live orchestra. The bad thing about tango is that, while it is definitely fun to watch, if you haven't taken any kind of lessons at all, you can't really even try it. It is a really specific dance, and you have to know what to do, even for the first step, and you need to know the little things, like how a man will ask you to dance, and how you will accept! It was fun for me to watch Birgit dance, but since I couldn't do it myself, I was falling asleep! The next morning, while I slept in, Birgit went out and came back with the makings for a delicious breakfast! We had medialunas (like croissants, but more dense and sweet - in Argentina everything is more sweet!), fruit, fresh-squeezed (by us) orange juice, and Colombian coffee made with the French press! That afternoon, we went to the famous (and VERY small) neighborhood called La Boca. In the evening, we went to a drum show, La Bomba de Tiempo, that had been highly recommended to me by other travelers - clearly it was a very touristy thing to do, since Birgit hadn't even heard of it, and since a lot of the audience seemed to be foreign as well. I did see my Swedish friends Johanna and Elin there, which was nice, and we watched the performance together and met out later for a beer.
| La Boca |
The next day, we went to Chinatown, where I was able to find ingredients for my guacamole that were surprisingly hard to find in all of Argentina - limes and cilantro! Back at her apartment, we made the guac and then walked over to a really nice loft of two British friends of hers for a Christmas party! All of the girls there spoke English as their first language, but had been living in BA for varying amounts of time and were fluent in Spanish - thankfully, they took pity on me and spoke in English. They had hot mulled wine, which was especially funny since it was like 90 degrees there and we were all sweating! For me, it was really nice to hear the Christmas music since it was only five days until Christmas! It's hard to believe, but other countries don't make such a big, commercialized deal about Christmas, and I had hardly known it was even coming up! Then we took the bus to La Catedral, another very touristy tango place, and then went to a disco until 4 in the morning. The next day, I met up with Anette again, and we saw some more of BA together, and then searched for an open seafood market late at night for sushi-grade salmon, so that we could make sushi back at Birgit's apartment. We never did find any salmon, but we made vegetarian sushi anyway, and a lot of it! It was a really fun night that included me running in the rain for several blocks to find an open wine store so that we could have some with our midnight sushi dinner!
It was hard to believe that the next day was my last full day in BA! Birgit and I wandered around a bit to find some gifts for me to bring to people, and then we went that night to her favorite parilla - I HAD to get some of that amazing Argentinian steak I kept hearing about! Unfortunately, even though we got there early and there were a lot of empty tables, they wouldn't seat us since we didn't have a reservation! While we waited for Anette to meet us, we tried to figure out what else to do, and ended up chatting with 3 American men who were eating there. They somehow convinced the staff that we should be able to fit at their table despite there not actually being room for 3 more people! Since it was the only way we would actually be able to eat there, we accepted and sat with them for the remainder of their time there, and then got to keep the table when they left. The meat and wine (Malbec, of course!) did not disappoint - it was delicious, and gave me a new appreciation for GOOD steak! Once again, the meat was very pink, but I ignored that and enjoyed it immensely! Then we went to Birgit's favorite bar and listened to her friend's band play Pearl Jam covers, which was funny. After that (hey, it was the last night of my around-the-world adventure - there was no time for sleeping!) we went to find a place where we could salsa dance, and once again stayed out until about 4 in the morning! Later that morning, I woke up not believing that my trip was actually ending! Thankfully, my flight didn't leave until that evening, so I had time to pack and get some other last-minute shopping done. Anette came over and went with me to find some souveniers and buy some delicious Malbecs to take back to the US with me. When I was all packed, Birgit and Anette walked with me to the bus stop for the airport bus, which was really nice.
| Ready for the journey home! |
At first, the number 8 buses kept coming, but the drivers all said no when asked whether they were going to the aeropuerto! It was frustrating, and eventually started to make me nervous due to the time, but I knew that I would be able to get a taxi for a lot more money, but that it would get me there in time to make my flight. After waiting for almost an hour, we finally saw the bus coming with the big red sign in the window saying that it was going to the airport, and so I hugged my friends goodbye for the third time and got on it! Even though I knew that the ride to the airport could take anywhere from one to two hours, the journey seemed excessively long, and I started to worry once again that I would miss my flight. The bus finally dropped me off at the airport at 9 p.m., and my flight was at 10:30 p.m. - yikes! I had to wander around just to find the international terminal, which was made more difficult by the huge box of wine bottles that I was carrying in addition to my two backpacks. When I found the right terminal, there was no one else in line at my airline (they had probably all checked in by then, of course), which I thought was really great luck. The guys at the counter checked me in, but then told me that I needed to have my box of wine wrapped in heavy-duty plastic, and in order to do this, I had to go back outside and pay one of several boys doing that job 70 pesos, which was ridiculously expensive, but at that point, I had no choice! Then I went back inside and made it through security, no problem, and thought I was going to make it. Then I saw the line for passport control, which was REALLY LONG! I proceeded to be very nervous while I waited in that line! I watched the screens that announced flight status for my flight go from "on time" to "boarding" and I am pretty sure that they said "last call" as I finally made it up to the counter! Thankfully, the passport check went quickly, and what was the most amazing was that my gate was actually right around the corner! I ran up to the door, and am sure that I was the last person on the plane since they closed the doors RIGHT after I walked through them! Note to self - allow more time!! That was way too stressful! I arrived in Mexico City at 5:30 a.m., and then waited several hours for the final flight of my trip, to Chicago! When I landed on U.S. soil, it felt so surreal to be home, and to have completed that amazing journey! When I went through immigration, the officer asked me to name all 28 countries that I had been to, which was a challenge, but fun! Then I went through customs, where the guy asked me what I had been doing in Argentina, to which I replied that I had taken an around-the-world trip, and then he simply replied "welcome home." Eventually, I exited, expecting my dad to be there waiting for me, but he wasn't! So I checked the board, and sure enough, it had the wrong door listed that I was supposed to come out of! So I looked down towards that door, and there he was, waiting!
Yup, he sure dressed up for the occasion! He brought me cheese curds, chocolates, and clean, warm clothes since it was winter in Chicago! The drive back to Appleton went smoothly, especially since it was Christmas Eve afternoon, and since there was no snow. The best thing about getting home in time for Christmas was that I got to see ALL of my family! Usually we can't all make it home at the same time, but I had requested that everyone really try to do so this time since I had missed them all during my year abroad. It was great just spending time with them and assimilating slowly back into the USA!
| My nephews and niece |
| Dad, me, and my siblings |
| The whole family |